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Are you a relationship wimp?
At some point in our relationships, with partners, friends and family, we've all wished we'd been more assertive over a situation. How many times have you gone along with a plan you don't agree with? Some people seem to have a knack for forging strong relationships and being able to balance their needs and desires with those of their friends and lovers. Others wait for Mr Anyone, let his wishes dictate their lives and merely complain to anybody who will listen. And some can be overly assertive, known for having tantrums when their demands aren't met.


Are you a jellyfish, a bulldozer or on an even-keel? Take our quiz to find out.
 

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1. Your new partner introduces you as a 'friend' at a party. You:
  Diplomatically correct the faux pas and save the discussion for later.
  Argue then and there - stuff appearances!
  Smile and say 'Hi'.
 
2. The sex could be better, but somebody needs a clue. Your solution:
  Fret silently afterwards while listening to his snores.
  Gently guide your lover's hands to your secret pleasure zones.
  Have a talk in the morning about the let-down between the sheets.
 
3. A friend or lover promised to call at a certain time, but the phone is silent. You assume:
  'I'll have to phone immediately and remind him/her about the promise.'
  'He/she doesn't care about me.'
  'Something important must have come up.'
 
4. Your colleagues know they can rely on you to:
  Carry your fair share of the workload.
  Hog all the credit on team projects.
  Put in extra hours doing their grunt work.
 
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